PHOTOS: A busboy kneels again next to RFK
![Busboy Juan Romero, 17, comforts Sen. Robert F. Kennedy moments after Kennedy was shot at the Ambassador Hotel on June 5, 1968. See full story](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/b11350c/2147483647/strip/true/crop/338x425+0+0/resize/338x425!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F30%2Fcc%2F40e2669129e34ecb8996bab77675%2Fla-me-lopez-busboy7-eu3ucqgy.jpg)
Busboy Juan Romero, 17, comforts Sen. Robert F. Kennedy moments after Kennedy was shot at the Ambassador Hotel on June 5, 1968.
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Juan Romero and his daughter, Elda Romero, walk through Arlington National Cemetery on their way to visit the grave of Robert F. Kennedy. Saturday would have been the slain senator’s 85th birthday.
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Juan Romero spends time with himself before visiting RFK’s grave. Getting up the courage to visit Arlington National Cemetery was not easy for Romero, a construction worker from San Jose who has been haunted for decades by the events of June 5, 1968.
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Juan Romero, with daughter Elda next to him, kneels at RFK’s grave site. He wore a suit for the first time in his life, saying it was the proper way to show his respect for a man whose memory he has tried to honor by living a life of tolerance and humility.
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Romero holds himself at least partly responsible for Kennedys death, and in his private moment with RFK now, he wanted to ask forgiveness.
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For years, Romero had avoided talking about his small part in a national tragedy, but he came to believe it was his duty to speak up about his own take on Kennedy’s legacy, in part because hatred and small-mindedness often pollute the national conversation.
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